One message I gleaned is that ignoring some of our “life-pots” might allow them to have their own best lives. And in return we are able to plant in some new pots of our own.
Hmmm… I recently said to someone that it is not in my nature to meddle in the business of others. I guess this spring that also applied to shed seeds in untouched planters!
Ahhh! Freedom. There is a higher power and I am not it.
I believe that in our seeking one can easily slip into expectations/preferred outcomes. In turn that can influence our clarity of mind to see all possibilities as having value.
“...letting go of something old to make space for something(s) new.”
I often feel the pinch when I skip the first part of letting go and simply add something new.
I also struggle with even the phrase “letting go” -- seems (to me) that the phrase implies unfinished, incomplete, disloyal -- even more personally challenging for me than “failed” as I have learned to love failure and embracing the word.
Hmmm...this will be good for me to simmer on a bit. Didn’t realize how much of a trigger that phrase would be!
Gail, I shared your article with my wife, which she read immediately. Before she gave me her reaction, I was interpreting her expression and felt the need to say, “I don’t think I’m the ‘something old’ Gail was talking about!” 😏
We are always delighted (and often surprised) by the “annuals” who keep going year after year. Like our tough pansies (how did “pansy” become a derogatory term meaning weak, when the ones we know handle frost and freezing?) and “bring inside” begonias (now coming back after their third winter outside — the first time was “oops,” the second time was “can they do it again?”, last winter was “nah, they’re fine, leave ‘em!”).
OTOH we also have our “once and done” mums that should have lasted. 😢 But others are filling out nicely and we have great hopes. 😊
Gardens are for those who can roll with uncertainty and delight in the unexpected. 🪻🌷🌺🌸🌻
One message I gleaned is that ignoring some of our “life-pots” might allow them to have their own best lives. And in return we are able to plant in some new pots of our own.
I sensed freedom as I read this today.
Hmmm… I recently said to someone that it is not in my nature to meddle in the business of others. I guess this spring that also applied to shed seeds in untouched planters!
Ahhh! Freedom. There is a higher power and I am not it.
Love this insight Gary!
“ignoring some of our “life-pots” might allow them to have their own best lives”
I’ve been reading a lot recently in the space of reinvention and mental clarity.
That led me down a path of seemingly contradictory statements/advice:
-Developing inside and outside harmony (“be yourself around others” and “be authentic” fit here.
-“Do not think your thoughts don’t matter. Your thoughts make you.” (Paraphrased quote on the wall above my cubicle.
-You are not a thinker. You are an observer of your thoughts (“meta cognition”)
-True self and false self (Rohr, Mate and Don Miguel Ruiz) around “personality” and “expectation.”
What you made me realize and then wonder with your comment is two things:
a. It can be truly enlivening and freeing to discard “old” stuff
b. I may be missing out precisely because I’m focusing/seeking -- maybe there are elements that do best when not focused on.
Hmmm...
I believe that in our seeking one can easily slip into expectations/preferred outcomes. In turn that can influence our clarity of mind to see all possibilities as having value.
100%
I was gifted an opportunity to explore expectations with the kid this morning. Fascinating stuff!
“...letting go of something old to make space for something(s) new.”
I often feel the pinch when I skip the first part of letting go and simply add something new.
I also struggle with even the phrase “letting go” -- seems (to me) that the phrase implies unfinished, incomplete, disloyal -- even more personally challenging for me than “failed” as I have learned to love failure and embracing the word.
Hmmm...this will be good for me to simmer on a bit. Didn’t realize how much of a trigger that phrase would be!
Hmmm… Now I’m simmering, too! There’s a reason we are friends! 😂
Gail, I shared your article with my wife, which she read immediately. Before she gave me her reaction, I was interpreting her expression and felt the need to say, “I don’t think I’m the ‘something old’ Gail was talking about!” 😏
You are not! 😂
We are always delighted (and often surprised) by the “annuals” who keep going year after year. Like our tough pansies (how did “pansy” become a derogatory term meaning weak, when the ones we know handle frost and freezing?) and “bring inside” begonias (now coming back after their third winter outside — the first time was “oops,” the second time was “can they do it again?”, last winter was “nah, they’re fine, leave ‘em!”).
OTOH we also have our “once and done” mums that should have lasted. 😢 But others are filling out nicely and we have great hopes. 😊
Gardens are for those who can roll with uncertainty and delight in the unexpected. 🪻🌷🌺🌸🌻
Begonias outside in your climate? Wow!
And I too have had almost no luck with “hardy” mums.
“Gardens are for those who can roll with uncertainty and delight in the unexpected.”
~Jack H.
Brilliant Quote!
🙌🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🙌🏼
A new book ~ exciting!
Right? First meeting with my editor tomorrow! Wheeeee!
😊🎉
How wonderful 🌿
Thank you Sue!
Wonder-Full of Flowers 💐
I love this! A new book and title! Letting going order to grow! Love the flowers!
“Expect nothing; live frugally on surprise.”
~Alice Walker
This quote is a beautiful six-word story!
Poise...
WOW!