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Karen DeBonis's avatar

Small world, Gail! Jay connected with me recently on Twitter, and I have his book on my to-buy list. You are right- amazing things will happen when we connect!

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Gary Spangler's avatar

Quite a list! And a darned good one at that. When I studied psychology, the notion of self determination usually used the term Locus of Control. External locus included parents, teachers, societal pressures. Internal locus as you might imagine involves efforts to learn and express our true selves. To develop characteristics and strivings consistent with same. As a rebel I was generally at war with my parents, corrected my teachers pronunciations and knowledge of world geography, and generally disregarded the good traits any of the above possessed. I thought I was at war with them but over time came to see I was at war with myself. Using locus of control, I lacked helpful guidance to explore my talents and strivings yet feared sticking my neck out to risk being authentic. Chasing my tail as it were! But it’s never too late to seek peace with myself. Start where you are?

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