There
is
only
one
choice
if
peace
and
justice
are
what
you
truly
want…
Love
over
Fear
From my grandmother asked me to tell you she’s sorry by Fredrik Backman:
We want to be loved. Failing that, admired; failing that, feared; failing that, hated and despised. At all costs we want to stir up some sort of feeling in others. The soul abhors a vacuum. At all costs it longs for contact.
Wow Gail, that video is so powerful. The spectrum of actions that the child uses in its attempts to get the desired connection from the mother is so eye opening. I'm going to be looking for examples of this all around me now...and certainly not just in infants!